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Sunday, November 9, 2008

A hypothetical case.

Hypothetically speaking:

Alice and her best friend Molly are.. well best friends. They fight (but who doesn't) They argue, but it seems like in the end everything's okay...but is it really? Alice does everything- well almost- for Molly, always being there for her, but Molly falls short when the favor is in dire need of return. So whould that make them best friends or only one friend and one person? Molly (hypothetically speaking still) doesn't get excited when something good happens to Alice, but Molly expects Alice to be just as happy as she is when something good happens to her. When something bad happens to Alice, Molly tells her to, "cry a river, build a bridge, and get the hell over it." While if Molly is upset she expects Alice to listen to her tale and then cry with her.
Put yourself in Alice's shoes and then in Molly's shoes.
So one day Alice meets Tiffany, and they really bond. Tiffany is everything Molly isn't. Molly gets mad at Tiffany for "stealing away Alice's friendship", but Alice like the way Tiffany treats her.
Are you the: Alice, Molly, or Tiffany in your friendship?
Who do you want to be?

***please remember that this is a hypothetical case and mar or may not be based on a true life.***

-???

<.:OeCd:.>

8 comments:

♥perky♥ said...

wow. i am quite confused on who is who. hmmm. cry a river build a bridge and get over it, was that a hint?? love ya t

<.:OeCd:.> said...

It's not that hard. Jocelyn got it the moment I read it, but I guess she's got her own "Molly" too. Think think think, and no the whole bridge thing is not a hint, it's a saying.

Cleo said...

If this is happening to you, and you're not just going off on a tangent, I'm sorry. I don't actually know you, but it's always hard when something like this happens. Personally, I think I've been all three of them.

♥perky♥ said...

i thought i knew but i wasnt sure, so who is tiffany?

<.:OeCd:.> said...

Cleo, Yes, sadly I think this is happining to me.

Think hard, Tiffany is only one of the most amazing person ever.

Lover-lee...♥ said...

um. so.........
i have a feeling i know who everyone is.
but i'm not for sure...
and i don't want to sound stupid.
I'm not Molly am i? because she said my line.
"build a bridge...."

<.:OeCd:.> said...

No, Lover-lee, you are not "molly" in any case, you are the Tiffany.

Roxanne said...

Sadly this is the nature of "friendships". Givers & takers...if you find one that's equal (or even close to equal), more power to you! When you get to the point of feeling used, it's sometimes helpful to "find some space". I love my "taker" friends, but there are times it gets quite old...